I have been reading so many stories of hope, from 2020. Our struggle may not even compare to them, we are all alive, in good health and thankful. In our minuscule world, we have some lessons, very simple ones. Sending this your way, so you find joy in the little things that we never thought mattered.
- always prioritize your mental peace. This one is going to come lots, but etch this, tattoo this and embed this.
- there is only one person who can make you stronger and you just have to look in the mirror to find who that is
- find your comfort food, chocolate/ cream biscuit/ pink salt, and when you are spiraling down, just go for it (and remember to close your eyes)
- find your comfort place in the house - by the stove / by the balcony sipping hot coffee, spend time here, lots, with yourself
- find your comfort thing to do - walk / art / porn / books / washing vessels and make time for this every day or as much as you can
- bring the judgement quotient really down, everyone is different, so while you are with them, have happy conversations, and if you can’t, just move on
- never try to embrace happy spaces / people, they are like rainbows - transient and out of your life too soon, so just be merry and enjoy the colors while they last
- no one is toxic, it is what we make out of them. Every individual is dealing with a lot, and they have their own means of coping up. If this is hindering with point no 1, then keep away.
- be kind and love lots, what if the last time you met someone was really THE last time and you wished you had given more of yourself back then
- lastly, love yourself lots. Believe in yourself lots. You are unique, you are awesome, you are you and only you are the best at being that.
In case I haven’t told you enough, I am thankful for you and thankful that you are yourself with me. It means so much.
2021 is here and together we are better.
Cheers
Hopie
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